suck it.

1. Live by herself for at least a year. 

2. Live with someone else for at least a year. 

3. Recover from a broken heart.

4. Have a vacation fling.

5. Take a road-trip with a group of girlfriends.

6. Relish sleeping in a queen-sized bed by herself.

7. Get her finances in order. 

8. Learn to love her body.

9. Have sex with at least one person she’d never want to marry (or introduce to mom).

10. Find reliable birth control.

11. Pay off as much credit card debt and student loans as possible.

12. Spend way too much on a something frivolous. 

13. Exorcise all past relationship demons.

14. Travel somewhere exotic.

15. Establish a strong circle of friends. 

16. Forgive her parents for not being perfect.

17. Have at least one night she can’t quite remember.

18. Experience some really bad first dates.

19. Find hobbies that fulfill her. 

20. Celebrate her 25th birthday. 

21. Ride on the back of a motorcycle 

22. Date someone who has visible tattoos

23. Buy a toolkit & learn how to use the things in it 

24. Travel alone 

25. Spend a day at the best spa you can afford 

26. Drive quickly 

27. Date someone older than you 

28. Date someone younger than you

29. Live in a foreign country

HAHAHAHA soooooon

30. Have a romance with someone who doesn’t speak English 

31. Meet one of your idols

32. Do something your friends don’t approve of

33. Delve into your personal psychology 

34. Be proud of your smile & your laugh

35. Learn to say no

36. Give time to a cause you believe in

37. Have a one night stand

38. Have some photos taken of you that you really like 

39. Learn to drive 

40. Become a better public speaker

41. Understand how fortunate you really are

42. Break your destructive patterns 

43. Evolve your look & scare yourself (often!) 

44. Take a risk & prove the naysayers wrong 

45. Fall devastatingly, helplessly, head-over-heels in love …WITH A CLOSE FRIEND.